How do you fix a broken heart?
In Part One, we came to grips with the difficult truth that humans follow their broken hearts, and we all have one. Part Two described how our hearts broke, and why we feel our brokenness so strongly. We also learned that God is drawn to broken hearts, not offended by them.
So, let’s ask the question again, “How do you fix a broken heart?” The only answer is, “You can’t.”
Not the answer you were looking for? To get the right answer, first ask the right question. Let’s try it again, “Who fixes broken hearts?” The only answer is, “Jesus.” He described his mission like this…
“The Spirit of the Lord is upon me, because he hath anointed me to preach the gospel to the poor; he hath sent me to heal the brokenhearted, to preach deliverance to the captives, and recovering of sight to the blind, to set at liberty them that are bruised.” (Luke 4:18 KJV)
That’s right, God the Father sent Jesus the Son to fix your broken heart and mine. Jesus came to earth, not in spite of our broken hearts but because of them. When Jesus died on the Cross, he absorbed the punishment of our sins—that was Phase One that erased our record of sin. To complete Phase One, ask God to forgive you and invite Jesus to become the center of your life.
Phase Two is the miracle of a healed heart. The same grace that saved you from the punishment for your sin, transforms your heart. Read this great promise again…
“For the grace of God has appeared, bringing salvation for all people, training us to renounce ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright, and godly lives in the present age.” (Titus 2:11-12 ESV)
We are tempted to sell grace short, as merely the absence of punishment. But God’s favor toward us is so much more; in fact, grace is an active force in our lives. Ironically, we find ourselves trying very hard to correct our own behavior, hoping in vain to live up to the grace of God. It works in just the opposite way; the more grace heals our hearts, the less we live broken lives.
When my car needs repair, I turn the keys in to the mechanic and leave him to do his work. If I could fix the problem myself, I wouldn’t need to bring it to the shop in the first place. The worst thing to do is to bring my car to the mechanic and then fight for the wrench and keep trying to make the repair on my own. If your heart is broken bring it to Jesus and let Him do His thing. Where is Jesus’ heart repair shop? Wherever Jesus is. But I have found He works on my heart when I read and think about the Word of God, when I pray, when I go to church and worship with other followers of Jesus, and when I give of myself to another person.
Jesus heals hearts. All hearts. Let Him heal yours.
David L. DeGarmo (D. Min.) serves Global University as Associate Dean of the Graduate School of Theology. Along with his wife Ruth, he is also a U.S. Missionary. He has extensive experience as an educator, missionary, and pastor.
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